FRIENDSHIP

I think the most precious thing in life after family is Friends.
All other relationships are based on self-interests, the moment interests clash,all love, affection vanish.....But its not so in friendship.

Friendship is not related to age, sex, status, terms or conditions. No logic, no motive, no plans, no ends. Just an acceptance of, an admiration for, a best wish for other humanbeing , plant or pet .

I firmly believe that - One can not be a good parent, a good child, a good spouse, a good worker or manager, a good teacher, a good pupil..name any relationship, without being able to be first a Good Friend !!

In life nothing is more joy than company of good friends and nothing is more strength than true friends on your side............

LOVE

I think Love is the most misused / confused concept of our times.

Love is not "Getting". Love is "Giving".

When it is ONLY getting , wanting , demanding , dictating , it is lust not love.

Love is focussed on "giving" .
Giving time, empathy, encouragement,attention, ears...
Love is Freedom , not a jail.

True Love is giving , empowering and enabling.

It is that invisible thread which brings a bird from far & high skies , right back to its little nest.

Crisis or Creation

I felt very happy when I found these lovely mosaic background in floors.I think this is the essence of managing contradictions in life.The silver and grey tiles ,rather than trying to change each other,they accept each other,and beautiful pattern emerges.

If you would observe,all of us are more busy imposing our religion and principles on others..Rather than following it fully ourselves.

We deny individuality and freedom of choice to those we love most!
If Husband/wife try to be the best of husband/wife,rather than preaching wife/husband about her/his duties,and if parents/children try more to be right parents/children themselves instead of straining to make best out of their kids/parents ,many a conflicts wouldn't arise.

DIFFERENCES are natural.
It is the way we resolve them, that makes them :Crisis or Creation .

Is Jahan Se Us Jahan Tak..........

Andhiyon mein aur chale,
Lad khadate ab kahan tak,
Ek awara dhuein se ,
Ude aur kis asman tak..

Gum ki gehri khaiyon mein,
Aur bahenge kahan tak,
Hath mein angaar rakhenge,
Aur kitne Imtihan tak......

Dhoondhe silsile dilon ka,
Aur kitne karwan tak,
Chal chalen ab to safar par,
Is jahan se us jahan tak..........